Hi
I have a stepdaughter of 8, I have been with her father since she was 41/2 but she still displays bouts of jealousy despite the amount of time she spends with us. She is very clingy with my other half and if we are alone say in the kitchen she will follow us. If he sits next to me on the couch she comes over and wedges her way on to his knee. I have told her that her daddy is still here and is not about to run away and all the other usual things you say to distressed children (though I want to point out she doesnt cry or throw tantrums she just stares at him and me when we discuss it with her).
I am expecting my first child in December which she is unaware of yet but although I want her to be a big part of the babies life I dont want it to become an us and them situation when she is with us as it is already a them and me situation at the moment.
When she is here she is treated well, and has a lot more structure than she has with mum (mum is a student so has little time at the moment). I allow them time alone together and get involved in activities so I dont know what else I can do to try to combat this behaviour.
Any advice?
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Jealousy - how do you combat it?
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sassaby · 02/05/2011 19:21
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