I feel guilty even typing this but i could use some advice or maybe just a sign that im not on my own in feeling like this.My hubby has 2 kids and we all got on fine until i had a baby (my 1st)and since then i have distanced myself from the kids further and further, it annoys me when they are around because they demand constant attention from their dad, (they were like this before but worse now and its the same with any adult,whether family or not, they are very needy)i find it stiffling and i feel like i have to make plans to get outt he house when they're around, which is ok because they get time alone with their dad which i encourage totally but i just keep myself seperate and i know this isnt healthy for me and my relationship with my husband.
Im lucky that hubby understands and he can see my point of view but i know inside that its not a healthy thing to do, i dread them coming round..im not rude or horrible but i know they must pick up on a vibe from me even though i try not to be hostile, i have a 2nd baby due soon and im worried it'll get worse....i want this to change for all of us.I should probably add that one factor did change when i had baby..the kids mom got rud eand vile to my hubby and made things difficult for us and still does every time we have them round and i get th eblame for all sorts of things so i know thats made a difference but thats not the kids fault...help!
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how having a baby changed my feelings about step kids
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RLCMOM2 · 29/01/2011 21:35
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