I moved in with my lovely partner 2 years ago with my 2 children and his 3 children. All of them live with us full time. I was not working at the time but I wuold have looked for work if I had stayed living on my own. Partner seemed to think I could have worked part time if I wanted. I tried to tell him that working at all was an impossibility while we were trying to get the two families to mix successfully. Foolishly I did not make too much of a fuss about it. I appreciated he too was making sacrifices for the family. (Paying rent on the house)
Now my money has run out I need a job and I cannot find one. I have very little money and none to spare for me and my children.
I have been a full time nanny to his children and somehow when we moved in I expected more appreciation than I am getting. I can live without the thanks but what has got to me is the fact that I might have to have my cat put down because I cannot afford the vet's fees. I think if I made a fuss and cried he would pay but I am upset I should be pushed into what would be a manipulative situation. Why cannot he understand the sacrifices I have made for him
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ellie1234 · 03/11/2010 09:45
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