DP has 2 sons (12 and 14) who we have most weekends. I am 13 weeks pregnant and we are telling the news tonight.
I have no idea how they'll react, though obviously I hope that they will be pleased.
Had a long chat to DP about it and we currently think the best approach is that 'our family of 4 is now going to be a family of 5' to emphasise that it includes them - it'll be a new brother/sister for them and it's not their dad having a 'new family'.
I think it's important to be positive about it as they might take their lead on how to feel from how their dad explains it to them(or is that bollocks?!) but still want to leave room for them to express any doubts and worries that they have about it.
Any advice from anyone that's been there!?
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Telling stepsons about new baby - any advice?
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lucielooo · 01/10/2010 10:52
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