Should she really have to come along with DH, our DC and the DSD when we have a day out? She says that DSD doesn?t know us well enough to spend the day with us and that she should come along too.
I just don?t want to spend the day with her (she?s been really rude about me in the past) and I don?t see why my DC should have to have their father?s ex-wife hanging around. I also feel sad for DH who never gets to see his DD without his ex being there.
The ex took DSD to live with her on the other side of the world when she was eight weeks old. DSD knows perfectly well who DH is from visits and skyping once a week. DSD is 4.5.
There is no reason for ex to not want DH to see DSD without her ? he?s not violent, doesn?t drink, is a perfectly respectable person and a loving father.
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What do you do when the ex won’t let DSD out of her sight?
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BloomingDaisy · 07/09/2010 16:42
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