Cycling: anatomically friendly saddle!

[rockybalboa]

Help!! Since having DC3 I think my fanjo has erm, 'altered' a bit with bits sticking out more than they used to. Soooo, after about 15 mins on my bike, commuting to work, my bits really niggle. Actual bum itself is fine, it's just the actual underneath lady bits which are taking a battering. My saddle is this one here and it is THE most uncomfortable in the history of the world so I have a female specific gel seat cushion on top which looks like this. It doesn't help that much. Anyone any ideas what is wrong with me and what saddle might work?!?

[singlespeedlass]

I've never found women's specific saddles with the cut out bit v comfy. Selle Italia Flite saddles have always done it for me although they take a bit of 'breaking in'!