Hi, I'm new here, just came across this website by chance via google. I'm not a parent but this might be somewhere I can hopefully get advice.
I am posting about my older brother who is 21, so this seemed the most fitting place to but this post. He attends a residential place during the week (he has severe autism) and it started out fine. But he has become a nightmare. (This is where I start to feel horrible). He's been there 18 months now, and has really began to regress. He has become very violent, he's tall, strong but lacks the ability to communicate. His writing/reading has also regressed. I'm saying this because I don't know if the place he attends is to blame for this behaviour.
Previously, he was never, ever violent - very placid. But now at weekends, he will burst into rooms and just be violent and hit and kick We don't feel we really get a break, as my Mum works all week. I am at college full time. I feel horrible typing this, but I actually dread weekends and him coming home, and I feel guilty if I go out with friends leaving my Mum to cope by herself. There is no family nearby to help.
Sorry that this is long and a bit unclear. Any advice/help would be greatly appreciated.
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WhiteLion · 18/12/2009 16:48
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