Before I start to explain ,please understand I intend no malice,im genuinely wanting to understand whats happening.
There is a young lad who is pally with my youngest ds - theres a few years age difference but this boy has adhd and autism (his mum says) this lad whilst hes at my house acts quite happily I sometimes have to say look at me im talking to you (in a nice way) and he does - he is quite young for his age.
The thing thats puzzling me is that just lately ive noticed when i see him with his parents or his older siblings he walks with his head down and kind of shuffles and to all intents resembles rainman - yet within a few mins of being with us he looks ahead talks clearly although very repetetive but definitely nothing as extreme.
My partner commented on this today and it puzzles me that he appears v vulnerable when with his family yet here surrounded by other children he is much more confident,joining in,joking and taking part.
Is this an aquired behaviour? is he doing this to 'fit in' with the others? is he able to do this? or is he predisposed to see himself as the weakling with his family?
please help me understand and excuse my ignorance.
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