My DD1 is at a special needs school for high functioning autistics. So was the boy in question. The ratio of boys to girls is 10:1 so DD1 has always been 'popular'. She doesn't have a boyfriend (mainly because she's obsessed with horses and long ago decided that she simply didn't have time for her studies, her horse AND a boyfriend who kept getting jealous of the attention she paid the horse ) but that hasn't stopped a series of requests all of which are turned down. Then about a year and a half ago this boy's mother started inviting DD1 over to play. I found this really odd so suggested that he came to ours instead HOWEVER DD1 wasn't interested. So I wrote back and politely stated that DD1's life outside of school revolved around her horse and that she simply didn't want to socialise outside of school. But this hasn't stopped the mother who continues to message me. Given that the school only goes up to year 11 he has now left the school (last may) yet I'm still getting the emails. If it weren't for the fact that occasionally I bump into her out and about I might tell her to go away but this isn't an option. Any ideas??
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How do I politely tell this mother that, no my 14 yr old daughter doesn't want to come over to play with her 16 or 17yr old son!
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Wills · 30/09/2014 12:26
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