Over the last year it has emerged that my stepson - who's now in his mid-twenties - is on the autistic spectrum. In some ways knowing this makes it a lot easier. However Stepson himself probably doesn't really know this. It's been suggested to him by a relative but he rejected the possibillity then - and certainly isn't admitting it if he does suspect it. He's living with his mother, also someone with autistic traits, who is extremely protective of him and has let him get away with a great deal. But my partner is going to try talk to him about possibly being on the autistic spectrum soon.
Anyway my knowing why he is as he is doesn't make social situations that much easier. Yet again he didn't reply to a message sent a week back inviting him to lunch today. Until 3pm when he rang and I was the only one is. I have realised that I've always found it really difficult when he rings and say, 'Hi, can I speak to Dad?/Hello, is Dad in.' It always sounds as if he dislikes me/doesn't want to speak to me. (We get on okay. I don't think he does dislike me - though he does tend to believe people should give him unconditional admiration.) But I really want to say - more than ever -. 'No, that's not what you're meant to do. You're meant to say, 'Hello FrauMoose. How are you? Oh and I'm sorry I never replied to that text Dad sent. By the way, is he in...'
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FrauMoose · 02/03/2013 15:37
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