yes he has SN but there is only so much i can take. He is coming up to 21 years old.
he has stolen from us 3 times now, the last just a month ago when he took my bank card and took large sums of money from my already overdrawn bank account.
he treats the house like a hotel.
he turns up at meal times and spends the rest of the time in his room
he sleeps until 3pm most days and stays up most of the night
he wont do his student finance application for his 3rd year at uni - the one where he would move out - which i need him to do as i need the break.
his room is so filthy that when he does go (if??) to uni i will have to throw away the carpet and gut it.
he works part time from home but has run up debt which he refuses to address
he did not buy either myself or my husband anything for our birthdays - even with prompting - it was DH birthday last month - i kept saying have you got your dad anything at all? he kept saying yes, yes, yes, but it never made an appearance - when i ask him now he just storms out of the room
ive tried to talk to him today again about his student finance application but he just gets up and storms off.
yes he has SN. But i did not raise him to be like this, i did not raise him to steal and lie and think only of himself ever, i raised him to be polite and helpful and have manners and to know right from wrong.
during the past few years he has proved himself simply to be not very nice.
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its with sadness that i realise - my son is just a first class arse.
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ThatVikRinA22 · 03/06/2012 17:56
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