My 13 yr old son was diagnosed with Aspergers at the age of 8. He struggles with socialising and has become quite isolated. Recently he has said that he feels 'sad' but has difficulty articulating why that might be. I had a long chat with him this evening about maybe developing some interests to occupy him outside of school which might be a way of meeting other kids who like him weren't as confident as some of the other kids at school (didn't actually use those words but you know what I mean).
Anyway these are the things we have agreed to try;
- Develop his photography - he has a camera and is quite creative. Become an expert with software and do some projects along themes he chooses eg. colour, buildings, portraits etc.
- Listen actively to some of the conversations in the form room at lunch or break and doodle some reminders and use these to try some practice convos at home? I could use some advise on this. The idea being if he had knowledge of other peoples interests he could start the odd conversation.
- Find out about and try Warhammer. He does similar on computer but might be an interest he could develop and the conversation should be fairly easy.
Anyway my question is are these suggestions reasonable. Do any of you have any advice.
Thanks for reading this.
I will be going to bed soon - I have to go to work in the morning however I will check in at lunch time and when the kids are in bed tomorrow so, please bear with me if I am slow to respond.