Today we were with the clinical psych at CAMHS re DD,s toileting difficulties.
DD who is nearly 5 and dx,d PDD-NOS (privately) is undergoing assessment from CAMHS,but they are trying to sort her toileting difficulties out.
Last week she went on the potty,toilet but she has stopped now and refused to do it.
So the advice from the clinical psych today is
1, To play with her give her special mummy and special daddy time cos she has to wonder what DD is getting from the level of care she receives from us
2, DD is NOT anxious over the toilet she just doesnt like going on it
3, She isnt going to refer her to OT (as our request) cos she MAY have sensory issues ormay not- we dont know yet (she got very arsery when we asked her to refer)
4, DD does NOT have the same difficulties as DS (ASD) and she might as well have said repeat after me the amount of times she said it.
5, She is too sociable for ASD cos when she went to see her at school she was chatty and didnt show any difficulty at talking to her- my reply was well thats because you are an adult.
so i feel a bit deflated,its exactly the same scenario as DS was 4 years ago,i really didnt think they were as thick this time round, i was very calm though and kept my cool,but im very disappointed in her attitude and am thinking of writing to her.
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jenk1 · 11/02/2009 20:40
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