noy sn, but you lot will understand, wwyd?

[2shoes]

I am supposed to be going to a works reunion tomorow night. all was fine when it seemed like lots of people were going. now it looks like me and 3 others.
one of these people is very judgy and already started.
on fb she asked me if I worked.
no I said I am a SAHM and carer.
so I then got all the oh I would love to be at home all day,
so I said back, yes but you have to have the severly disabled child.
so she says, I know but I would love a day off!!

now in a large group I could walk away. but 4 people!!!
shall I make my excuses.
there will be another one(with more people) next tear.
and I have the local meet up to look forward to.

[YeahBut]

If you don't want to go, don't go. You don't need to spend an evening justifying your life to someone who is completely clueless.

[TotalChaos]

make your excuses. can't believe the cheek of the woman.

[mummyofboys]

Weigh up how desperate for a night out are you ? ....

I think I'd rather pour hot fat on my head then sit being spoken 'at' by some sanctamonious TWAT !

Wouldn't you rather spend it with people who appreciate, relate, empathise, sympathise ... whatever, then HER? Or you could just get blind drunk and give her what for !

Good luck!

[2shoes]

I can't drink as the pub is off the bus route, so I will be sober.
she always was a cow. we were good freinds when ds was little, but i dropped her when she started to question ds's inteligence(as only a not yet had children person does)

[2shoes]

mummyofboys 'm not tbh, I like being at home, the weather is shit and I have the meet up in a couple of weeks.
there will be nice people thre like mabs and custy

[mummyofboys]

Save it for them and have a blinder - hopefully their venue won't be off bus route?

[2shoes]

I have done it
I have said something has come up.
well it has in a round about way. but I have an excuse, that isn't quite a lie.
dh has to pop ot of 5 mins. I just won't mention the 5 min bit
It does look like "she" isn't going. only 2 people are and a random boyfreind!!
yikes

[Buckets]

Since you were booked to go out, don't waste it! Have you got a mate in walking distance who might be up for a pint somewhere local instead?

[2shoes]

I am broke, so was going to be on coke