dd who turns 3 next month seems to be running wild. I feel I can't discipline her properly as ds imitates and often hits her if he picks up she is doing something wrong. Sometimes of course she is doing something wrong and other times it could be she is holding her spoon 'wrong' but we all know about that
Anyway I feel that dd should be more sensible. When I see her with her peers at toddler groups she doesn't sit still, climbs all over everything. Her road sense is terrible. She undoes her car seat belt etc etc.
I can't blame autism for everything and I do realise that I've not got the energy to be firm but I do have them both 7 days a week.
I was out at a mother's day meal yesterday with mum and sisters and dd was awful, running around and of course ds just copied her. I feel that she isn't helping him and vice versa. They fight a lot when left together, ds takes her toys etc and hits her. I seem to have zero advantages of 2 siblings, rather it is like a twins both around age 2 but of course one much larger than the other.
We are covering behaviour in the Earlybird course but its much furhter ahead and dh and I had a bit of an argument about ds and his hitting and both of them in general so any advice would be gratefully received.
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Eulalia · 07/03/2005 17:23
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