just need to rant

[bubblagirl]

no one need reply i just need to let off some steam

ds full opf cold terrible tantrums morning till night cant talk to him he just freaks out at me threw himself on floor outside shop yesterday tried to run into main road several times would not hold my hand would not listen to me

stropped all the way through to bedtime would not eat woke in night decided it was time to be up took hours to get him off to sleep few bribes animal bar milky bar and banana had to force him to my room so i can keep an eye on him as bnot well myself and so so tired

today strops all morning has to have it all his way or no way doesnt want to do what i ask then does want to do it once ive done it so pulls all back out to do it again himself

wants to direct me to town and if i dont go his way he creates

music therapy he doesnt want teacher to sing doesnt want to play instruments does want to play them whole half hour of crying stropping and he did manage to have some fun luckily other little boy also ASD was in same temprement today

my head hurts i could cry im tired his now watching film snuggled in bed bless him i love him dearly but dont like these days when i feel i have no control and am at a loss

rant over thank you for listening lol you dont need to reply just needed to let it all out now i can go relax as i feel i have spoke to someone who understands as have no one else i vcan talk to apart from other little boys mum except shes as frazzled as me today

[madmouse]

Of course I need to reply

Not that I know what it is like as my ds problems are very different, but that sounds like awful hard work.

Hope you manage to relax

[bubblagirl]

just feel so down today yesterday i dont know how i got through it ive never seen him like it guess his making me work for the money we were awarded lol

when he has colds or is ill he has next to no energy levels at all is always tired and in return always such hard work you cant talk to him he just screams and cries and strops runs off slamming doors

really tiring just going to lay on sofa watch a bit of jeremy kyle lol and wait for an afternoon film and not move lol as if i'll not move any more than i have too lol

[bubblagirl]

well just checked him he is asleep so could be anothe rlong night but for now its quiet and i get time to breathe so will grab a mag and bag snack jacks and enjoy the peace x

[kt14]

poor you, it's horrible when they aren't well, and with us it's Friday tiredness too.

Can't do a thing with ds1 and am fed up of him clambering over me so he's parked in front of beebies while I catch up on a few emails!!

[bubblagirl]

sounds like a good plan kt well im going to relax with lucozade to try and get some energy back and some crisps just coz im addicted to them lol

ive got cheats dinner for tonight as so tired got some pizza for oven as ive done home cooked meals for weeks ive been good but tonight no im too tired

comfort food yum yum

lets hope they all calm enough to settle have food in peace and bed and actually sleep

[bubblagirl]

ooh his not asleep now but can hear him laughing at tv so maybe thats all he needed to revive oh well i'll still chance relaxing best run lol

[bubblagirl]

he just came running into living room screaming scared the life out of me and then he threw up all over the floor my poor baby all settled back to bed now bless his heart i'll allow him to feel stressed if his felt sick last few days the understandable

so upsetting we dont have that communication although this morning he pointed to his mouth and said ill i said you feel ill he then threw a big strop and said no not ill whilst thrashing about

i guess he really did feel ill

[dustystar]

Poor ds and poor you {{{hugs}}}

My ds has a sickness bug today too and he is being a PITA. He and I both missed out on about 3 hours of sleep last night so i know he is tired but you wouldn't guess it from watching him today. He's still not well and I've told him that he really needs to lie quietly and rest but every time i turn my back he's up. I wouldn't mind but he obviously still feels crap as he is so grumpy.

Lets hope both are little angels are feeling better tomorrow eh

[Marne]

Sending lots of hugs

Hope you have a better day tommorrow.

[bubblagirl]

thanks guys his just woke up in good mood i done him some chicken and pasta not to heavy for his little belly and his slowly eating just the pasta but at least its something only done hanful of pasta incase it makes him sick again

he didnt eat at all yesterday but thought it was the cold he has obviously been feeling quite rough poor thing thought his behaviour was very out of character

hope your ds feels better too dusty

and i hope tomorrow is a better day too marne he has his friends b day party and all he keeps asking about all the time so would hate for him to miss it

ive spoke to the mum of little boy his music buddy and she said ok to bring him still so fingers crossed no more sickness

[TotalChaos]

poor you, I guess now he's started with the puking he'll hopefully be over the worst. Something bland like pasta is just right for a dodgy tummy.

[bubblagirl]

yes he had a handful went back and he'd left the chicken but asked for more pasta so clearly feeling better for being sick and sleeping it off very rosey cheeked but seems more calmer like his normal self x

[misscutandstick]

i hate those days too! crap, horrible, upsetting. sending big {{{HUGS}}} XXX

[leamac]

always remember todays temporary and tomorrows a new day

[bubblagirl]

thanks guys he woke up last night and the pasta came up he ended up with a temp of 102 managed to get it to come down and early hours he wanted to get up and go into living room so he could very much be the same today its when his tired his hard work

temp has gone down today and so far no sickness but not feeding him much today he helped himself to a fab lolly

he has been so looking forward to his friends party so were going to that all has been given the ok from the mum as she really wants him there as they do thee music together and have a little bond

so here's hoping for a better day dont know if dp will like me much though as he snores and keeps me awake alot and last night after 2 sleepless nights coulodnt handle it so whipped his pillows away prodded and pushed him so he wasnt to happy but why should i never sleep lol

[RaggedRobin]

heh heh - he's lucky he gets in the same room as you! dp is in one room with ds and i sleep in the other with dd. i never would have thought that i'd end up with girls' and boys' rooms when we first got together!!!

[bubblagirl]

lol the things you do for kids aye thats one thing i didnt want us to not be in same room so i bring ds in but not into our bed have made a make shift bed on floor with him working away and working such long hours at times bed is the only time we get together

but if he keeps snoring like that i'll move onto sofa at kleast until new mattress is here then he can go lol

i recorded his snoring last night and he couldnt beleive that was him i said try sleeping through it once you have finally settled ds who has been convinced last few hours its time to get up and also been throwing up i cant even sleep in peace after lol the things we do for love

[moondog]

Poor little lad.

[bubblagirl]

well im pleased to say he went to party and enjoyed himself wasnt his normal self but enjoyed watching rather than participating

hasnt eaten alot but not worried too much his eating ham sandwich now settled himself into bed with dvd

but mood wise his been much calmer and more like his normal self so on the mend i hope but ive been feeling sick all day so hopefully i dont get it looking forward to eating my chicken mozzeralla pasta bake tonight dont fancy seeing it again later lets hope it passes by me

fingers crossed his sleep will be all night tonight as i havent slept for so long

[moondog]

Oh that sounds more positive!

[bubblagirl]

so far so good still asleep if he sleeps well his mood will be great tomorrow rant i think can officially be over but thank you for the support so nice to have people listen who understand me rather than yes my dc woke last night as well

i bet not for good few hours convince dit was morning not listening to any attempt to explain it was night time few hours later finally giving into sleep and then up at 5 on the dot

no theres woke for drink or dummy put back in no understanding and half the time they dont want to

rant over thanks to all that listened and understood xx

[ouryve]

Is it the moon? Just had one of those days with DS1. Yes, we were the harassed looking parents sitting on a little boy on a bench in a shopping centre this morning because he was being rather too free with his head and feet - all because he decided the sandwich he had chosen was yucky.