We had our initial appt today at short notice. I've felt sick all day, first with nerves, then with shock. Firstly that the doctor listened to me and that he recognised that dd has significant problems (huge relief about that). Secondly, that I felt AD/HD symptoms I've read about 'fitted' her so well, that despite good advice and wise words given here, I'm to admit that I hadn't really given much consideration to the possibility of ASD/Aspergers. I think it's because she is a very affectionate child though and has no issue giving/receiving affection.
It went well in that dd 'performed' in a suitably distractible way. He asked lots of questions and I filled him in and he also did some tests on her. I found it all quite overwhelming tbh, and heartbreaking when I noticed how she didn't meet his eye once the whole time he was interacting with her.
Also, I had no idea the problems at school were as significant as they are. He will see us again in six months and in the interim, things will be going on in the background whilst investigations continue and dd will be put on various programmes at school in order to help improve her learning and social skills.
At the moment though, he's thinking along the ASD/Aspergers lines rather than AD/HD, but obviously she cannot be dx'd in one appointment. I'm not sure as although her social problems are significant, she's very affectionate and communicates well with adults on a one to one basis. Also, she does play imaginative games (although didn't when younger) with her friend and their dolls which dosn't quit fit the ASD symptoms.
Oh, I don't know. I'm hanging in there and because so much of what she does/says fits with everything I've read regarding AD/HD, I'm not sure what to think. The good thing is though that it was obvious her problems are most definitely not insignificant and things are in place to help her and make a dx
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Aero · 06/02/2008 23:26
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