I'm sure I'm going to get myself some grief here but I need some advice (rather than criticism) please. Long too, sorry.
My DS is very small for his age, very passive and his conditions mean that he has (amongst other problems)very poor balance and mobility and falls regularly.
He attends a SN nursery (and a ms one) where on one morning there is a particularly boisterous child, he has ASD - as do many others in the group. I have seen him push my DS over many times.
My DS is quite clearly petrified of him and is does not want to go to the SN group, crying and holding on to me and saying "no Mummy".
When I dropped him off today this little boy rushed at my DS, which made my DS back off quickly causing him to fall and hurt himself. I was trying to protect my DS but without physically restraining the other child I don't know what I could have done.
I have spoken to the managers on many occasions and I think they think I'm being precious, also they are so blardy PC when I politely suggested that the little poppet be gently disuaded from pushing my Ds over I was told "It is just X's way of expressing himself" "It is his right to express himself freely"etc HANG ON, what about MY SON's right to not be pushed or frightened?
I accept that every child is an individual and has a different way of expressing themselves (and that all children at this group have different issues), BUT this child's way of expressing himself is directly impacting on my child's enjoyment/right to education.
I have tried suggesting strategies (like at drop off keeping all the children engaged in an activity untill all have arrived instead of the current race around the room that happens), but seem to be being told that it is impossible to influence the behavious of a child with ASD. Really?
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alycat · 19/10/2007 15:16
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