Justbeen to see dd's consultant and at the end he told us that there had been 'complaints' about us on the ward dd has just spent 3 weeks on. He didn't really say what but said 'some poeple' thought we were aggressive.
Now, I do my best to be polite at all times so I'm a bit perplexed. But now I wonder if asking questions and having to ask for things because they've been forgotten (for the zillionth time) is what is termed 'nuisance' or 'aggressive'? But if we sat there all meek and quiet then the times the nurses forgot the meds or forgot to feed dd or tried to give her 20 times the normal dose would have passed unquestioned!
I hate thinking the consultant thought we were awful but I've gone over every conversation I can recall and I always do my best to be polite.
I know I can be pushy but if I wasn't dd's infantile spasms would have gone on longer, this EEG wouldn't have been done so we wouldn't have cured her possible lennox-gastaut. She wouldn't have had any physio/OT/SALT.
But I'm pretty upset at the comments now and worried they'll treat dd badly next time she's in but if I never say anything then harm could come to dd.
Anyone got any advice?
Feeling tearful. I am so fed up with having to deal with medical/social services/respite people that NT people never have to deal with daily. I want a normal quite life
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needmorecoffee · 28/09/2007 17:29
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