i live in environment where kids play out the front of our houses. i dont really let my kids out as i'm just anti it, but anywya, cleaning my car and doing the garden this afternoon, J aged 5 comes along as well as a few others.
my other neighbour who is a SN teacher, has commented J has certain difficulties taking various social cues whilst playing. he had to ask him to leave just 20mins earlier as the game his kids were playing became v disrupted.he came out to chat and get his kids back in. (now please there is no malice here at all). P has alot of experience in the field.
so anyway everything that each of the 5 kids had out to play - whether it was a pram / scoter / dump truck, he demanded he have it and practially pushed them off. even the kids were negotiating with him but he became v distressed. and can i say "difficult" without being unfair. he couldnt grasp sharing as the kids were doing themselves. i mean how do i handle this? he threw he toys away when he finished with them. and basically it ended up that we all went back to our houses and i looked out and he was on his on. which is terrible for him. this isnt just a once off incident there have been other things where he wont take no for a response.
P doesnt think he has been diagnosed correctly as he feels obvious techniques he knows would be used by his parents.
so are there techniques i can use or convey to my 2 to assist in this playtime.
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hermykne · 26/04/2007 18:16
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