hi
i have been posting for a while but never got the courage to write about this.
my 2 sons were both diagnosed with AS last year. through reading about it, it became apparent to me and everyone wh oknows me that i clearly have it too. i have ince been to see a psychologist who agreed that i have it but is unsure what use a diagnosis would be or why i would need one at this stage in my life (i am 31).
its been a very bizarre journey because it has turned everything i thought i knew about the world and those around me completely on its head! i always thought it was everyone else who was 'weird', 'rude', difficult to talk to etc. and i thought that everyone else has the same issues with touch, sound, eye contact problems and obsessions as me. and it was me all the time!
i do feel i have some difficulties, some quite complex, some that badly affect relationship with dh and some which badly affect relationship with dc s. i do find parenting really hard, esp when they are at an age when they start having 'a mind of their own'.
when the boys were dx my mum read all about it too and she said to me- ' thats you, i always knew you had this but never knew it had a name'. apparently when i was at primary school teachers and my mum wanted me to see a child psychologist but my dad wouldnt let me go.
the problem i have now is i dont know where to go for help and support, and for my dh to get help too, as i dont have a dx, and also not sure what is available in my are for adults. everything seems set up to support kids but nothing for older people. dh and i went to Relate recently and the counsellor woman just didnt 'get me' and so we ended up not going after a few sessions as i couldnt say what i perhaps needed to say and i just came away from every session sounding like a cold selfish cow!
if anyone has any help or advice or wants to tell me about your story i would be very grateful.
i have also posted this under 'disabled parents' as wasnt sure where to put it!
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mamatres · 21/03/2007 18:07
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