I really try not to. I know some people need to know. Blimey with DD2 I found myself having tests, something I had never thought I'd do and found very uncomfortable, but a situation I found myself in all the same. I went through hell with all of that. Cried buckets, felt like shit, felt such a terrible person. It was the hardest thing int he world when I realised DP desperatley had to know.
I just feel really, really uncomforatble when people talk about checking the nuchal fold and booking in for a CVS etc. I'm sure they have thought loads about why they are testing etc and have made an informed decision about why and what they'll do and why they would do whatt hey would do etc, but sometimes the matter of fact way these appointments are discussed, it feels like they are discussing nothing more important than a hairdressing or pedicure appointment.
All these people that have a CVS or an amnio booked, are they all doing it becasue they need to know either way or are they doing because they would all abort if the child had Down's? I know you can't answer that, and it's none of my business anyway etc etc etc, but it's what goes through my head everytime.
How can I be a mother to a child with Down's and not be slightly pained by all the seemingly casual talk of CVS's etc?
Sorry, just needed to offload as feel quite sad about it all. It's the hormones, ignore me if you like, I won't mind!
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I find it sooo hard when people talk about nuchals and CVS's and amnios etc
TeeCee · 20/02/2007 16:21
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