friend of DS has always been a slightly difficult child although I would assume he was NT .. he is certainly capable of tailoring his behavioural extremes when his parents aren't there .. its only when they are that his defiance / anger / stroppiness / violence tends to manifest
anyhoo .. he seems to be exhibiting what I can only refer to as possibly sensory issues at parties but they are strange and not happening when and where I would expect a sensory issue to manifest
eg at both his party and party today he was fine in huge big soft-play scenarios having a whale of a time .. enjoying himself .. and playing nicely with others
yet at both parties as soon as everybody moved into another room to eat he virtually freaked and was only happy if left to his own in the corner .. he didn't want to join his friends at the table .. he simply wanted to be left alone almost like he's overwhelmed by children sitting round a table and eating
I have this dichotomy on video .. he really seems distressed in the eating area
BUT he has school dinners no problem btw and sits nicely for dinners at houses
so what do you think .. is there potentially a sensory issue there? (and if so are there anything that can help) or is it just a weird behavioural quirk that's best to be ignored
any thoughts .. I know you're not diagnosticians .. but I'm wondering if it rings any bells
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would like your advice on this .. and to know if it rings any bells please..
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Twiglett · 10/02/2007 19:06
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