This is a copy of the original post I put on the behaviour board, it was suggested I try here. I had thought about it last night and nearly put it here first as I already lurk/post occassionally here, but didn't want to appear neurotic (which is exactly what my gp thinks of me already )
I thought about putting does my son has xyz? as the title, but thought it would be better asking if my ds1's behaviour is typical of a 5.8 year old.
Anyway, I have recently sat and made a list as my dh and I are starting to get concerned with some traits we have noticed. When started home educating just before xmas, so some of these things have become more appartent with spending more time together. We are both just very frustrated. Here is the list.
·Returned to daytime accidents at 5, after being dry for 2+ years. Doesn?t seem to be caused by stress or problems at school. Have ruled out medical reasons
·Still not dry at night (although could be hereditary)
·Always had a thing for peeing wherever he could, all over his toys, behind his wardrobe, in the bath (empty bath with plug in) and out of his bedroom window.
·Making the biggest mess while doing a pooh, smears on the walls, on the floor, on the seat, all around the bowel and on the sink. According to hubby, he tries to do acrobatics while doing his business
·Short attention span, lack of concentration
·Lack of imaginative play (although talks to himself and has/had an imaginary friend, but rarely plays anything original with his toys, just copies what he sees on tv)
·No empathy
·Always fidgets, is never still
·Loses things easily
·Is never bothered by anything, hence why star charts, taking things away or praising good behaviour doesn?t seem to work
·Slightest things set him off into a tantrum or meltdown (very bad loser when it comes to games). He would rather grunt when he has been upset or in a bad mood.
·Finds it very difficult to make friends, comes across as very shy, but talks to everyone like they are dirt.
·Always suffered with pains in his feet, like growing pains
·Refuses to look you in the eye when talking to him about serious things, has never said sorry of his own accord (grunts it at you, but doesn?t mean it, just does it to be allowed out of his room) and has never helped to clean up (my 2 year old loves to help) and has never loved to help with anyway.
·Lack of confidence / has low self esteem
·HATES loud noise, puts hands over his ears when I am hoovering, if I have my music on loudly or during the spin cycle of the washer, although admittedly, it sounds like a jumbo jet taking off, lol!
·No matter how many times we tell him off he never learns and does the exact same thing again just minutes later.
Please tell me honestly what you think. I have gathered up my courage to post here as friends and family seem to think I should be mentioning these things to the GP, but as I already have one special needs child, I am scared that something could be wrong with my "healthy" child.
Thanks in advance!
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Heartmum2Jamie · 02/02/2007 09:46
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