I realise it's a really common issue but I'm struggling with this a bit. Whether to push or not push etc.
We had a day at the seaside planned today. DS (12, AS) refused to go, despite knowing where we were going (as in familiar with it), having had a written chart plotting out the upcoming days, etc. Yesterday he said he was looking forward to it. He says he 'just doesn't want to go' and 'can't help being stuck in his ways', but is also a bit upset at 'missing out on experiences' coz he does this a lot.
What's making it harder is that DP is furious coz it was all arranged and we were all looking forward to it and so on, and is spitting feathers about us capitulating to DS all the time.
Most of the school hols have been spent schlepping about the house and garden so he's not been overloaded. He has been happy though. But often when he is persuaded to come out he has a great time, but it's that initial hurdle.
DP is currently huffing and puffing and sighing dramatically with a face like thunder...
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CardboardPlastic · 23/08/2016 13:38
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