Dear all
My brother has severe autism and has been in a residential school for the past 2-3 years. He is due to be moved to adult services as he is reaching 18 years. He should be at the new location by September. However, there is a problem: my mum had been suffering emotionally since the day he left. We thought at first it would get better, but all this time she was holding herself together from the fact that perhaps one day he would move closer to her (currently 2-3 hours drive away just one way) She has been round a few care homes as requested by my brother's social worker and finally she chose one that was 30-40 minutes away. This was back in December and the social worker at the time said she would sort out the paperwork. Fast forward to May, nothing had been done and she had left. Now a new social worker has taken over the transfer and it looks like he is hellbent on choosing the new home and is not giving my mum a choice, inciting that 'its in the best interest of my brother' and 'they have limited funds'. As you can imagine, this is a huge shock to us all, let alone my mum. The social worker has chosen a home in Richmond! My parents are both getting frail (dad on renal dialysis) so will not be practical in the long term.
I might sound selfish but please can anyone tell me that we do have a choice. We do want the best for my brother but after being promised to the care home nearer to us, I cant help but think they are forcing this on us and him due to financial reasons ultimately.
Any advice would be great.
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starlight78 · 20/07/2016 08:45
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