Hi our 8yr old has aspergers and we are going on holiday to France in 6 weeks. Have no idea what I was thinking when I booked it!! At the moment family life is really tough my dh can't cope with my DS so he has decided take a step back from parenting and my DS knows that daddy doesn't like him anymore so they aren't speaking to each other!! Things were no way as bad when I booked the holiday but my son is getting harder or I am running on empty from never getting a break -my patience is wearing thin. I used to be a fantastic mum to him but dont feel like that anymore as it is so hard to keep him calm anymore. I really don't want to go on this holiday anymore!! His main issue at the moment is time and if something is booked or arranged for a certain time if it changes or is early or late he goes into meltdown mode. He loves routine and likes everything just so. He is very quirky and is different to other 8 yr olds and although sometimes he will play with other kids he us quite happy doing his own quirky things. He goes into meltdown very easily if something is done different to how he expects and this is what I am scared about. We have done lots of talking about how flights can be delayed etc and how on holiday people may be loud and silly etc but I am so so scared of everything going wrong and being left in a foreign country with 2 kids. A year ago I could have coped but i feel so mentally exhausted at the moment I don't think I will cope. Any advice on any coping strategies??
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