OK, these are ds3 not sam, ds3 appears to be classical autism, rather than HFA like Sam. Which is proving interesting in that we have a whole set of new challenges LOL!
- DS3 laughs when he hears the word NO. I ahev heard JiimJams (I think) say her son likes the word, ds3 seems to be the same. No matter how angry or sad we make our faces when we do it. Any tips for reinforcing behaviours? He doesn't understand rewards, he doesn't have the language.
- When out and about he tends to just go down ojn the grounsd / pull at random. Should we put him back in a buggy? (hasn't ahd one since August)
- Clothes... how do I keep some on him????? Help! Its cold here!
Seeing Paed soon, but she'll just have to start the process of reports, will take ages yet.
Out other worry I suppose is school. he starts the local school (anyone who knows our history will know I am going HELP!) in September, yet he can manage under 30 words, all i=either item related or self specific. he doesn't have imagination, pay much attention to non familiar kids, has lost toilet training yet again, has absences, doesn't do reciprocal emotions..... help! Will the ed Psych who has been asked to do a report have any advice, or even consider this at this stage? Its clearly going to go tits up unless something dramatic happens to his development in the meantime. I was aked to make a robin with jim for nursery last night, sat down and he couldn't do ANYTHING- even sit down reliable. The other kids are colouring, talking..... Harry wouldn't even make a mark, didn't want to understand what I meant when I asked.
I acnnot get an answer out of nursery, they just nod knowingly but the truth is they DON'T know, they don't normallya ccept kids like Harry, it was just that we didn't really cotton on how severe it was all getting.