This is my first thread on here so do excuse me if I ramble.
DSS has a speech delay and try as I might I'm finding it incredibly difficult to help him start to speak. I was wondering if anyone had any advice (well anything different from the speech therapist who imo is rubbish considering she gives us the same advice every time we see her even though his development is clearly different every time)
Speech therapist has advised lots of baby signing but DSS just really isn't interested. He already points and takes us to things he would like. He waves his arms about (kinda like a mini fist pump haha) when he is saying "yes" so he has pretty much got his own version of signing so I doubt he sees the need for anything else as his works pretty well. She also advised various things like taking turns and saying "Daddy's turn" or "My turn" etc but beyond that she really hasn't given us anymore advice in almost a year.
DSS is 3 and the only words he says are "YEEEARRRGHH" "uhoh" and "ow" but even when he says these things they don't come out clear or quite right if you know what I mean. Occasionally he will copy things I say like "Bupbup" for beep beep but he never does them again and never tries to engage with us by saying these things again.
I have worked in nurseries and therefore have been trying the things that they would try such as nursery rhymes, games, talking ALL the time about EVERYTHING, singing, imaginative play etc. It all seems to be going in as his understanding is pretty good and most of the time do things you ask (depending on his mood like all toddlers haha) but none of it seems to be coming back out.
Really I'm looking for a bit of advice, any new ideas and probably a little support too. ;) In the 11 months I have been around he has progressed from just shouting "aaahhhh" to those few little words up there. I'm desperate to help him speak as the poor sausage is getting so frustrated and cross when we don't understand what he wants or is talking about which in turn makes us rather stressed as nearly everything is turning into temper tantrums at the moment.
I'm the main person he spends his day with now (DP is now at work while I stay home with DSS instead of him) so I'm clearly in one of the best positions to help him but I'm feeling so frustrated and upset that we get little to no progress most of the time. He seems to be a pretty complicated little chap so if you need more background info on him to help then I'll add that in. :) We have been referred to a SECO team but we haven't heard anything in months (apparently their waiting list is a year!) and the health visitor is organising a trip to a pediatrician to check any underlying causes (maybe asperges which his dad is currently being tested for) but I would love to be able to do more in the meantime.
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