Well, the time is almost here, now only 4 days stands between DS, and a ASD diagnosis. I honestly don't know whether I am dreading it or will be relieved when it is finally over.
We now know that DS, who is almost 3, definitely has ASD. I suppose the extent of his issues is what concerns us most now. In short, DS is happy, affectionate, eats well, sleeps well, plays with toys appropriately, knows letters, shapes, numbers, colours, and has done for over a year now. His issues are that he is non-verbal (although will say a word very occasionally but never again), social interaction with anyone other than myself and husband is extremely limited, and he has a couple of sensory issues. I don't know how severe that makes his ASD?
Anyway, I want to know from other lovely mumsnetters what more we can be doing to help our son? I am a firm believer in the 'whole-person' approach and want to do everything I can to help him reach his potential.
Speech
Like I said, he is non-verbal, although every few months may say a word but the word is never heard again. I had wondered whether this may be Apraxia? On a positive note, he is babbling away all the time now and I hope this continues to improve.
Play
A year ago he had lost all of his play skills and used to run up and down the room and only read books. Now, he will spend most of the day playing and keeping himself busy - although imaginative play is still lacking.
Nursery
He is due to start nursery in September with his twin brother. I would have liked to have sent him earlier, however I'm not sure how much this would benefit him? An ABA provider told us that he is 'not nursery ready' so I'm now concerned about him going.
Social
Currently he does want to spend most of his time with DH and myself, no one else really interests him, particularly children. Although, I'm not sure how to encourage this?
Sensory
He does have a couple of sensory issues - hand flapping, occasional jumping and verbal stimming when he is excited. I presume that we will be offered an appointment with an OT after diagnosis?
Starting school in 18 months time
I have no idea on this one - if he's not nursery ready then how on earth will he be school ready?
Other Activities
I've read a lot of people's comments about taking their DC to swimming lessons? Does anyone have any other suggestions for suitable activities?
DLA
Not really on my radar yet, but as DS is pretty easy-going and well-behaved, I'm not sure whether we will even qualify for this as he doesn't need any extra care as such.
Anything else? Phew.....apologies for the long post.
If anyone has any words of wisdom, suggestions or advice on any of the above I would be ever so grateful. I just want to start making a plan of action.
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