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My DS is 6 and waiting for asd assessment. We manage pretty well at home but he is starting to struggle at school and I really don't know what to do. His teacher is lovely with him, and very understanding but it seems to me that the work is just getting beyond him. I was told at his last iep review that he has not progressed through the levels at all since his last review, and today we got a slip saying they had done a practice spag test and he got 0/10 right. He struggles to express himself verbally, so expressing himself in writing is even harder. He also seems to have difficulty retaining information, so no matter how many times we practice a set of spellings, he still just spells everything phonetically. Chances of him identifying nouns and adjectives are a million miles away as far as I can tell. He has increasingly been refusing to do his work, and I think it is because he is finding it too hard and therefore losing interest. He's in year 2, but in a mixed year 1/2 class so I think a lot of the time he benefits from the work which is aimed at the year 1 children. In September he will move into a mixed year 3/4 class and I think he will be so far behind academically. He is also facing sats in a few weeks.
I feel like I'm letting him down because I don't know who to approach for help, or what I should be asking for. His teacher keeps saying she isn't giving up, and to persevere but it's not working for him. We don't even have a diagnosis yet to point us in the right direction. I've been on several Facebook parents groups and everyone seems so knowledgeable about the whole system and I'm just lost. Not helped that people keep telling me "you have to push for support" but push who? for what? How do you get to know who to contact for what, who should be getting involved, when is it appropriate to look at ehcp?
Any advice would be much appreciated.
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Princesspeach1980 · 15/03/2016 15:48
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