Just need to get this off my chest!
Having had the most severe meltdown yet - resulting in ds2 (age 11 with ASD and OCD) smashing up the house - a psychiatrist finally prescribed some medication to get us through Christmas at least, when the situation will be reviewed to see how we move forward. Yippee, I thought! Perhaps Christmas will not be too traumatic for ds after all.
Yesterday, get a letter from a Social Worker (SW) who has been asked to assess us to see if they can offer any support and read that SW has spoken to a 'family therapist' at DCAP, who has seen ds twice (but he shut down on her and refused to go since) and me 4/5 times. Therapist has told SW that ds problems are all down to my poor parenting skills; my lack of consistent behaviour management and that I have labelled my child as 'bad'!! I have to stress that the therapist is not a medic, just a counsellor and did not even acknowledge dx for ds until 4th session.
I am just devastated. Now feel like the worst mother in the world. Part of me knows that what she has said is complete rubbish but another part wonders if she is right (although family/friends etc have told me that it is so not true).
Merry Christmas? Don't think so!
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2 steps forward - 1 giant one back! Sooo upset!!
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scoobyww · 23/12/2006 14:36
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