^^ what the thread title says really.
Following some earlier threads on MN I have spoken to the learning co-ordinator for her year at school, just to garner opinion on whether we should consider asking for a referral to diagnose dyspraxia. She is going to start the school's internal system to decide whether a child needs to be referred - looking at her organisational skills and asking her subject teachers for their opinion on concentration etc. Academically she's doing OK but she's stuggling with organising herself and remembering what she needs to do, it's become far more evident since she left primary school where she was pretty much micromanaged the whole time she was there.
She's quite hormonal sensitive at the moment and her self esteem is on the floor. I think what I'm most nervous of is that we go ahead with a referral and she gets no dx - which will only make her feel more crappy about herself than she already does.
Also struggling to think of exactly to start the conversation with her.
Funnily () I let myself be talked out of requesting an assessment for dyslexia when she was 7 - she's always seemed quite bright to me (pfb?) but could barely read or write until the end of y2.
It's now my opinion that, yes, she is bright, which has helped her overcome the difficulties she has, leading to her "average" results. She has always tested at bang on average in SAT's, but to talk to her, she seems better than that iyswim? But because she was meeting her targets, her primary school wouldn't entertain that she had a problem and I believed them, at the time.
Sorry a bit of a ramble there but any experience or advice around how to discuss this with dd would be very much appreciated.
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How do I tell dd (11) that we have started the process of (potentially) getting a diagnosis of dyspraxia/dyslexia
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RainbowDashed · 30/11/2015 16:36
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