Hi, this is from the FB group that a friend has set up to help her son. I have posted on her behalf in case there was anyone here that could offer her some practical advice.
"Jo is a 12 year old boy with Autism and Tourette's. He has spent the last year, under Section, in a Mental Health ATU up in Manchester, 240 miles away from his family home in London. A placement with no Autism awareness and therefore has had a hugely detrimental impact on Jo's overall wellbeing and development, at such a crucial point in his life.
This was a decision that was made without any involvement from the family, and as his mother, I was only informed the day of the transition, whilst sat in Intensive Care at the bedside of my husband.
Although his Autism can severely impede his communication, often leading to explosions of behaviour that can be extremely challenging, Jo has a fantastic sense of humour and a phenomenal strength of character.
He often speaks of all the things he would love to do at home, but unfortunately the 7 hour transition in the car is too vast for him to comprehend.
Jo needs a bespoke package built around him that will allow for him to be placed much closer to home, so our family can be together again and Jo can enjoy a proper childhood like anyone would wish for a child.
Without the continued support of his local Clinical Psychologist and Social Worker, in ensuring my regular contact with him is maintained, my relationship with Jo would have deteriorated dramatically. However, even with this in mind, more work still remains to be done in order to support Jo in enabling him to see his Dad, who he hasn't seen in person for over a year."
The poor boy has not left his room in the last 6 months - his "education" is having worksheets posted through the door. This Saturday he had a lovely day out with his Mum and she was able to take him outside in the community (safely!), his first daylight in such a long time as they refuse to take him anywhere due to the "risk". however when she returned on Sunday, they tried to bring him to her using a different route and he couldn't cope. He then spent the day locked in his room crying, as he was "too much of a risk". He injured himself by banging his head numerous times but they refused to go near him to put his helmet on!
He is currently waiting for a place at a unit in Birmingham that understands asd so that they are able to put together a bespoke package that will enable him to be nearer to home. However the unit he is currently in, has no understanding what so ever and it is having a serious detrimental effect on him.
Has anyone been through a similar experience?
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12 yr old ASD/Tourette's sectioned and placed in a non-ASD unit, advice please
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happyis · 07/07/2015 07:03
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