just today.
walking into the bank with Dc as we had to go into town.
woman comes out as DCs barging in, DC says 'shuttup, fucker, idiot'.and pushes her a bit.
I apologise and just as im beginning my explanation,
woman says 'how rude, talking to someone like that' and giving me a 'what a bad parent you are and what a dragged up brat' look.
I say 'excuse me, DCs got aspergers and tourettes, whats your excuse?''
woman then muttered 'sorry'.
I then retorted 'why dont you thinbk before you judge? you can see DCs not ''normal'' looking or walking etc. Go and educate yourself. you should know the difference between a person with medical problems and otherwise. and BTW I live with this 24/7, you get 2 seconds of it.''.
this was shouted in front of everyone in the bank by me, Im sick and tired of the comments and judging. a couple of people applauded me to which i was grateful for.
what do i do?
not ever take DC out and about? wave a huge banner procl;aming her disabilities?
would the woman have said that if DC was in a wheelchair?
doesnt help that im on crutches myself and physically drained from the energy used to get around, so i was tired and well pissed off.
I know nothing will change DCs condition and weve had this judging before and will do so in the future.
how does one cope?
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Trenzalore · 24/04/2015 17:18
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