Ds has been "in the system" for nearly 2 years now, and, in February, we got a verbal diagnosis of ADHD, plus dyspraxia and possible ASD. We have given consent to look at medication for the ADHD, but, as yet, have heard nothing; no follow up letter, no diagnosis in writing.
The paed has been on holiday, the secretary that deals with everything single handed or so it seems has been on training courses, at meetings, and on holiday, and school are pushing for something in writing.
Finally got through to someone this morning and it appears they haven't received the consent letter I posted, and I haven't received the letter they sent asking for it, so we've been put to the bottom of the pile and forgotten about. They are behind by 6 weeks, so will probably be that long before we get any appointments through. We're also on the waiting list for an appointment to child psychology for another autism assessment, but been told the waiting list is about 18 months and the referral hasn't yet been approved, despite being told this was being done back in December last year.
It just feels like I'm banging my head against a brick wall. Ds is having a hellish time at school, and his behaviour is causing regular exclusions. He keeps sayings he doesn't want to be there, and I'm seriously thinking about taking him out and home educating, as at least then I'd know he'd be at home all the time as oppose to having to keep leaving work to go to school whenever they call. But then I need to work, and how the hell can I do that around HE'ing?
I'm so stressed with it all. Ds is unhappy, he has no friends as he keeps hitting them, feels like school just don't like him much sometimes, and I'm at the end of my tether :(
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Losing the will to live... Timescales, lost letters and lack of support from school :(
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JustBeingJuliet · 16/04/2015 12:04
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