DS2 had his first paed appointment last Friday. After listening to my extensive notes and playing with him a bit, she has referred him to the CADU for a one-off observation. She said that although she can't/won't diagnose based on one meeting, she thinks he will end up with an ASD dx.
Some of you may remember all the trouble we had with DS1 and school a year ago; he was bullied out by a hideous HT, spent ten months at home awaiting a hard-won placement at the local SS. He's settled now, and the SS is brilliant.
But I can't fight that fight again. I almost had a nervous breakdown last time. I can't believe the cruelty perpetuated at schools against our kids, and that there is no redress. The injustice of what happened to DS1 has left me scarred. If and when DS2 gets his diagnosis, there is no way I could trust a ms school ever again.
Every parent I have met through the ss has a similar story to ours, even those whose kids have much lower capabilities than DS. DS2 has speech and communication difficulties and thinking of him alone and isolated in a terrifying environment he can't cope with breaks my heart.
I know there's no answer to this. Just feeling really low and wanted to share. Thanks for listening.
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