hello everyone, I don't normally post on here but I hope you don't mind - I thought you guys would have the best knowledge around for this kind of thing.
I'm about to claim dla for ds1 who has a chronic kidney condition. I didn't realise I could claim it, taking all the extra stuff his life can entail for granted, as you do, until I got onto a support group and all the other kids get a range of dla. So I've sent off for the forms and now I'm getting so stressed about it.
What I really want to know is if it is normal to get so upset about the whole thing (I'm pregnant so I'm sure hormones are raging wildly). I feel like I'd accepted ds1's diagnosis by now but thinking about all the stuff I have to write down about how his life is different is really making me sad. In fact, I well up just thinking about it now. It's the opposite to my normal 'think positive' approach I suppose.
Did anyone choose not to apply for it because of that? Cos I'm wondering if it's really worth all the stress. He's quite well at the moment so maybe we would only get the low rate though I think he deserves middle rate on his worse days. Is it ridiculous to not claim? Are there any other advantgages to claiming it apart from the financial (do you get access to any kind of extra support etc). Does everyone go through these kind of feelings or am I just being weird (don't mind if you say so )
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morocco · 19/10/2006 10:45
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