I have DS 5 with ASD, PDA, SPD, and a DD, 2.5 who I anticipate an ASD diagnosis for imminently.
I am struggling to hold it all together sometimes as DDs behaviour worsens as she gets older. I'm dreading my emotional fallout of her ASD assessment next month... She is very very hard work, and I find staying calm and doing the right thing is tiring, and so are dealing with (both of their) meltdowns. I have lots of worries for the future etc...
I'm just so very tired, DH too plus he has a very very stressful job. DD doesn't sleep very well, although probably only wakes up about once a night but as the one that works very part-time, I mostly get up and see to her. It's making me feel a bit loopy though, the lack of sleep at times.
I'm starting to dread waking up in the morning. I am now fairly certain that I'm depressed, but I would feel like I hadn't tried hard enough to get by if I went on ADs..... and I'm scared I wouldn't be able to get off of them.
Apologies if this is a bit of a pity-fest, I'm just not sure what to do next, and I'm struggling to get through the day. Meantime, the chores are piling up and I'm relying on TV and rubbish food to see us through until bedtime... Which is making me feel like a really terrible parent.
How do you keep smiling? (Or keep from crying all of the time?) how do you appreciate what you've got? I keep telling myself it could all be a lot worse but I don't remember this amidst the waves of self-pity.
Can someone give me a kick up the bum?!
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Bigfatsigh · 21/08/2014 14:46
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