Selective mutism has been talked about for some time now by his playgroup and SALTherapist. I agree as he chats away at home, although lots of his speech is unintelligible (sp?).
Worst part of all this has been since returning to playgroup last week. First day he walked through the door holding my hand but bent over completely double so as to avoid making eye contact with and saying hello to the playgroup teachers. Same on the way out. During the session (he gets lots of one-to-one support) they have started to refuse him toys unless he asks. He has been overheard talking freely with other kids so they have decided it is attention seeking to an extent and are refusing to allow him to get away with choosing who (not) to speak to.
Awful afternoon today, I visited my dad, ds refused to acknowledge him so we refused to let him play with any toys until he did. Cue massive tantrum which went on for about an hour, me returning him to the bottom step til he stops crying and comes to say hello to grandad and ask to play with toys.
I really feel for him as he is desperately shy but I know he cannot carry on refusing to speak with people. It broke my heart to not let him play and have him get so upset.
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So upset for ds3, breaks my heart he is this way.
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QueenEagle · 16/09/2006 18:40
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