A referral was supposed to have been made (heard nothing yet) becasuse my mental health approved social worker felt that there was a 'welfare' need for our family that social services could assist with- i hoped from this to get someone visit me and assess the difficulties we have.
She stressed that this was not because sjhe thinks the kids are 'at risk'....but what exactly is 'at risk'?
Appart from the obvious physically harming a child etc.....(which i lived as a child myself and have not as yet resorted to this)
1)I do not want to take my boys to school
I want them home with me.
2) due to my own depression and their autism related eating problems i struggle getting meals ready
3) i do not take them anywhere-and nor do my husband an i go anywhere alone- as i cannot trust anyone to care for them as none of our families accept the Autism-instead we take turns and go out separately
4)i have contemplated leaving my 7 AND 10 YEAR OLDS 'Home Alone' in order to try and take my youngest out- as he loses out constantley due to the other 2 having such problems with routines etc .I have not done this yet- but the longer my desparation goes on the more tempting it will be to leave them alone- rather than getr a baby sitter
Please tell me if any of this is of concern to social workers- or are you only interested in the children who are abused in other ways
I feel that as things are i am deeply affecting my children and though i do not hurl abuse at them or physically strike out - in my head all these things are going on and i am scared that one day i will stop coping.
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mrsforgetful · 22/03/2004 10:00
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