DD1 has respite through KIDS. She loves it - adores it in fact. Last week she was due to go to Paultons Park, but rather than going on the minibus, they asked us to drop the children there. It seemed really unfair on DD2/3 that DD1 has been to Paultons at least 5 times and they've only been once (when DD3 was around 8 months old). So we asked DD1 if she would mind if we took the girls in with us, while she went around with her KIDS club.
(We wouldn't go as a whole family to Paultons yet because they are all so young - under 8's must be accompanied on rides, and because DD1 has SN/Disability, she can't go on rides unaccompanied either, so we'd have to queue three times for each ride because none of them are old enough to ride alone and none of them are old enough to wait by the ride exit alone)
Anyway, DD1 said this was ok with her. So we went. DD1 bumped into us at the Cobra ride, and DH offered to go on with her (there was no queue, as it happened - torrential rain) because the two carers had 3 children who wanted to go on with the same problem above. All fine. Then we bumped into her when we were waiting for the 4D cinema. She dissolved. Couldn't cope at all. Wanted to be with us. So we sat with them for the cinema, and then convinced DD1 that she had fun things to do. She relented and went with her carers. She was happy to see us at the end of the day and said she'd been sad, but otherwise fine.
Tomorrow she's due to go swimming, then to a puppet theatre showing. She adores swimming and loves the discovery centre. The next day she's due to go to the zoo - again, one of her favourite places. She's refusing to go to either . She says 'Last Monday we went to Paultons and I was very sad. One Monday is enough.' I've had to let her KIDS leader know that she's refusing to come.
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I think I've broken DD1...not sure what to do.
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