Following my mtg with DS new teacher, who thinks he has no identifiable needs (or did then) we were to have a mtg with her and the senco on Fri. As we arrived it transpired that the prev. day DS had been involved with another boy in an incident. This boy had hit DS who had then bitten him - unfortunately in the groin. I am just so horrified because he has never done anything like that before. Fortunately the head was q. sensible about this and having interviewed the boys and sent a report tothe hospital has said he has no concenrs. Still half expecting a call from Child protection though and absolutely dreading the playground gossips to. We then had this mtg with the head, the Senco and the teacher. The head was patronising and bombastic, telling us what the problems were and what would happen and not inviting our opinions or concerns at all. We had to fight to say anything. Is this how education workers think meeting should be held? DH works with schools in a CAMHS capacity and wasn't suprised. Anyway, I am finding it suprising and exhausting that I am having to try and persuade people that DS does have needs. The head told us in such a patronising way that maybe Ds was mildly autistic, but that we all are...aagh - I just can'yt seem to convey to some teachers what the problems are. I just didn't expect that. I know that they are mild and not nearly as marked and striking as other childrens in the school, but they exist all the same esp. with social comm. skills. And if one more person patronises me and describes me as overanxious in a school meeting I swearI'll scream.
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DS bit another child and we had a terrible IEP mtg. Feel v. exasperated
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earthtomummy · 11/06/2006 17:48
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