I have 2 special needs children. My oldest ds is getting allot of help for when he is at school. but preciouse little at home. he has adhd, anxiety, spd, and tried to kill himself at 5.
my youngest ds has adhd diagnosed but come high up on the opositional spectrum. he is nearly 5. (other ds is 6.)
youngest ds is making life very hard, he just throws a spanner in the works at every oportunity.
he physicaly hurts us, bates his brother, behaves digustingly at the table, diliberatly wets himself, tried to wee on me the other day. he says nasty things, well though out too not just, "you poo poo". climbs and jumps off up to 8 ft high.
he just dousnt care if hes made you angry or sad. he has little or no idea of social acceptability. the list goes on.
I got a realy good book on adhd but need something on odd. my husband and i are totaly together and have been told were realy good parents but i feel all at sea and just want to run and run and run and i dont know where. i do go to a support group once a month. but there must be some help for parents.
i know when the school struggle they get help. we already had to take them out of their last school as a teacher was being physicaly and menaly unkind to them. we just werent wanted.
we go to a good school now but the buck always stops with us, if people dont want to deal with them they just dump them and we are always left to pick up the pieces.
sorry to go on but i dont know what to do. im worried my little boy is going to end up in deep sh*t when hes older is I cant help him.
i love him so much but I feel like hes killing me through stress.
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pinkum · 15/07/2013 19:44
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