I'm hoping some of you can help me get some perspective with an issue which I just don't want to blow up. I love the people involved but don't know how to handle the situation.
A close friend of mine's 5 year old DS1 has ASD. The whole family are exhausted and on edge the whole time. This child tends to become aggressive when everything gets too much for him- either when happy or anxious- ie most of the time. He's doing unexpectedly well at school, having been statemented & having a one to one TA..
There is a bit of history that her DS1 has been physically aggressive with my daughter (same class ar school) in the past- pulling her to the ground by her hair, covering her mouth when she speaks, she comes home with grab bruises on her arms etc. the teacher & I have been encouraging her to keep her distance from him at school (which has helped- and luckily she's mature enough to do this most of the time) even though she adores him. He is not aggressive to other children in the class, probably because they let him be.
Friends 3 year old DS2 is battered by their DS1 constantly. He is frightened of his brother, with good reason.
My issue is that friends' non ASD DS2 is becoming increasingly aggressive with my 18/12 DS. By her own admission it's only my DS that he is like this with. He is copying his brother, swiping, pushing, & verbalising 'I want to scratch/ hurt [him]
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Aggressive behaviour of autistic child's sib
howsitgonnacomeout · 04/07/2013 10:25
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