ME!...Apparently when my Ds (AS) is having days when he is not completing his work their BEST EVER strategy (which was working fantastically until I was able to lower my Ds's anxiety levels when he came in from school by getting him to open up about his day/work, so I can possibly, maybe actually try to HELP) to stop him from bouncing off the dam walls and constantly asking me every second if I love him and if I am proud of him, or randomly telling me that my life would be better for me if he wasn't in it supposedly caused this super amazing strategy to 'stop working'
I know this is not the AIBU thread but Please, please can one of you level headed ladies tell me that IANBU to be extremely pissed about this?. The more I think about it the more it is really riling me up!
Also, If there are any special needs teachers on here can I have your views on an experience SN teacher (previously worked in a SS) who has had experience with Asperger's telling my Ds (or any Dc for that matter) that he isn't completing his work because he is being 'lazy'?....what if I was to add into the equation that this was done in the classroom with all other children present? (but it was OK because it was a 1-1 discussion ) Is it just me, having completely lost my patience with peoples sheer stupidity being a little over protective or is this really unacceptable? Weeks ago my Ds heard me jovially telling his dad that he was lazy, some time after he declared that I didn't like his dad on the basis that I had told he was lazy!
PS. A little note to those too busy on MN and not doing the jobs they are paid for.......you know who you are! I have officially lost my patience, congratulations you have stirred a part of me that I have always managed to keep at bay! You thought I was a PITA before....its about to get a whole lot worse. How dare you!? when you actively avoid using strategies provided by outside agencies to blame ME for your inability to act on this guidance!
Well I feel a bit better now! Sorry about the rant!
TIA
Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on special needs.
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Soooo the best strategy for my Ds is to use.........
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