I have name-changed for this.
We have had our life turned upside down over the last 4 years trying to fit DS (ASD) into the school system. He has moved school 3 times.
He is currently at a school 25 mins drive away in a different county. Although school are great, our LA is truly appalling. Lying, deceitful, vicious, obstructive at every possible turn. It also offers no ASD provision at secondary level so DS would have to stay out of county.
We are renting as we were going to move west a couple of years ago before he started his current school. We thought we would head west on the basis that we could afford a bigger house, maybe even a bit of land and a better quality of family life even if we would still have to fight for provision.
DS's current school is hugely helpful but he still struggles just being in a class. He is academically very able but is stressed out by the social environment.
We had thought of buying a house near the current school but prices are double what they are in our current location. So we started looking at houses here again. We saw a nice house and have today had an offer accepted.
However, now the chips are down, I am wondering whether and away from all the crap memories. We live in a small cathedral town and everywhere you go there are reminders of the schools we left behind and the battles we have had to fight.
Should we go for a clean break? A new start? Or is this just dreamer's talk?
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maxsanta · 08/04/2013 14:31
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