DS (8) has dyspraxia, it's mild, but he still struggles in some areas with fine motor control being the biggest issue.
He loves sports, but many aren't suitable especially those that require a degree of co-ordination, up to now we've encouraged him up do lots of different things and through shear determination and persistence he's fairly competent at things like riding a bike, catching a ball and swimming.
Our problem is that he loves football and being part of a team. He's been at a club for around 18 months and had up to now had a great time, but in the last few months his coach has started to exclude him from matches or in my opinion deliberately humiliate him by putting him in unsuitable positions on match days. To cut a long story short I have had a big falling out with the coach, and to be fair to him we hadn't discussed the dyspraxia with him (diagnosis is fairly recent and it's taken until two weeks ago for my husband to acknowledge that there is a problem), however it doesn't take a doctor to realise that DS has problems.
I now find myself in a position of not knowing what to do and I can't face another night of lying awake worrying about it - my opinion is that football is not the best sport for DS and that the problem between me a and his coach will never be resolved (we picked a club that is supposed to give every child a chance regardless of ability). DS still wants to go, but before any permanent damage is done I need to get him away.
I've tried talking to him about it, but he is insistent he wants to go - I would really appreciate any advice on dealing with this and any alternative sports that would be more suitable.
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StayAwayFromTheEdge · 21/03/2013 07:01
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