Its been a strange morning with Ds 7 (sensory seeker waiting for further referral) ds loves school and this morning didnt want to go he said his head hurt, then his stomach, then his throat, then said he didnt know why he didnt want to go that his brain didnt know all this while crying, he was sobbing full on tears but couldnt explain to me why he was so upset, this lasted an hour i was about to admit defeat and keep him off when he said suddenly while still crying on my lap that he could maybe go, i said we have to go now if your going and he said he would, complete turnaround. Got him to school and he seemed off, didnt run over to play with anyone, pushed people who approached him away and was generally a real grump, but why the sudden change of mind it was like he flicked a switch he couldnt tell me why he now wanted to go either???
I can only presume this is tiredness, he goes to bed at 7.15pm each night he whispers to himself until about 9, he sometimes wakes and whispers again in the night and then hes awake from around 5.30am whispering again until he's allowed up at 7am, he's always made noises at night it used to be full on noises and talking but since the arrival of ds2 hes managed to get it to a whisper, he talks to himself about doctor who, i hear him repeating lines from the show. He told me yesterday that he want to sleep at night but his brain wont stop thinking about doctor who.
Dh thinks if this is the case we need to remove dr who from his life as its becoming to consuming, its all he's really interested in, all he plays and talks about, all he wants to watch on tv so without that he's got nothing really, he doesnt really get out to play despite really wanting to because he just doesnt imo have the maturity to be out there unsupervised, he doesnt show any interest in his other toys he said i can bin them and actually asked me for another fidget toy for his birthday. If i remove dr who whats he got and even if i did would his mind just home in on something else anyway and have the same problem?
Ive tried everything i can think of over the last 5 years since this started to keep him quiet at night, bedtime routines, positive rewards, punishment but nothing helps its as if he needs to do it to get to sleep
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