Dd2 has had a rough few weeks at school, routine has been messed up thanks to staff messing around, new teachers etc. Last week dd2 had a huge meltdown and had to come home early as school could not calm her, the next day she was very upset but went to school, had a bad day and then refused to go to school on thursday, i kept her home and she went back on friday.
This morning she refused to go,i could not get her dressed, she kicked me and would not wear her uniform or any other clothes, was screaming, crying and shouting 'no school, i dont like school'. In the end i left her at home (with my mum) and took dd1 to school. I spoke to the head and she arranged for dd2's TA to come to the house to talk to dd2. Dd2 said she will go in tomorrow but she seems very anxious if i mention school . Im not sure what she will be like in the morning (if i will be able to get her dressed). If she does refuse what do i do? i cant drag her in naked and screaming but the longer she stays at home the harder it will get for her to go back .
She's in a small ms school with 30hrs TA, we have looked at the local sn school but they are worried they wont meet her needs as she doesn't have LD (accademicly she's bright), she has HFA and the school only has children with severe autism and LD's, there is not other option school wise (nothing suitable near by), i just dont know what to do anymore , feels like she does not fit in anywhere. I am tempted by home schooling but i worry that not socialising could make things worse for her.
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